“I don’t want to be with you anymore. This relationship isn’t working for me.” Even though your girlfriend said this to you two nights ago, these words still sting you every time you think of her. What likely reason could she have for breaking up with you? Where did all this come from? How are you going to survive without her in your life? These are puzzling and hurtful questions for anyone going through an abrupt break up and, they all need practical answers.
The period following a breakup is always the hardest. The victim of this separation goes through a period of self-doubt, confusion, and guilt. In addition, there is an overwhelming desire to reunite with the ex, which at times leads to desperate and irrational behavior.
You now have no choice; you must figure out how to get your ex girlfriend back. In this article I will provide you with a few tips that you can apply to help win her back.
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7 Tips for Getting Her Back
- Take time to cool off and re-evaluate the relationship.
Think critically about your relationship and the mistakes you made. The Ex Factor Guide, one of the leading dating guides available, recommends a 31-day rest period after the breakup. What do you do during this time? Get out, meet some new people and do a little self-evaluation. At the end of this period, you will be all set to go through with the process of winning her back.
- Understand the reason for the breakup.
Most women are not truthful about their reasons for ending a relationship. That is why her words hurt so much. In most instances, such words do not make sense especially considering that just a few weeks ago this same girl hurling these hurtful words could not keep her hands off you! Taking a step back from this relationship will give you the chance to look at it from the outside and figure out what went wrong. As you plan how to get your ex girlfriend back, take note of mistakes that you made in the past, to avoid repeating them.
- Sign up for a good program that will help you win her back.
Honestly speaking, men are not very good with relationship issues; or at least that is what most women assume. Either way, there are many programs that will give you practical steps that you can use to get your ex back. Why not try the Ex Factor Guide? This guide shows you how to stimulate the production of oxytocin in a woman’s brain. Oxytocin is the hormone associated with deep, passionate feelings. The Ex Factor Guide will explain to you how to use words and actions to increase the levels of this hormone in your ex’s mind. As a result, you will change your girlfriend’s ill feelings towards you into feelings of desire.
- Strategize on how to make your girlfriend fall for you again.
To come up with a good plan on how to get your ex girlfriend back, you need to do some research. Find out the best way to get her to change her mind about you. One of the methods that the Ex Factor suggests is the Clean Slate email. In this email, you say sorry using subtle language that makes her feel responsible for the breakup and gets her thinking about you again. Using the right words will stimulate oxytocin production in your ex’s brain, leading her to have more positive and loving thoughts about you.
- Rekindle positive memories.
How do you do this without being a pain? Use a text message. Text messages that benefit form talent of good composition often convey what you want to say without portraying you as invasive or pushy. Brad Browning of the Ex Factor Guide fame suggests the 3-text method.
The first type of text should refer to a shared memory, like “Hey, remember the band that we saw last year in the local park? They are coming for a concert in two weeks.” The second kind of text is in the form of a question that again, refers to a shared memory, for example, “I hope you’ve been well. Do you remember that hidden restaurant where we found those awesome croissants? Please remind me how to get there so I can take a friend.” Now the third kind of text, one showing your support, will bring her to her knees… “Hi there, I just wanted to wish you well in your interview tomorrow. You’ll ace it.”
These three text messages will get your ex-girlfriend thinking about you without much effort on your part. Memories of great times together will feature more prominently in her mind than the negative memories.
- Pass on positive messages about yourself.
Once the lines of communication are open, you can send positive messages about yourself without her realizing your intentions. With the right words, you can appeal to the right side of her brain, the feeling side. Each message you pass therefore stimulates feelings of love and deep passion when she thinks about you. You can take advantage of text messages, emails and phone calls for this purpose. With time, she will begin to regret having broken up with you and instead view you as the person with whom she wants to spend the rest of her life.
- Plan your reconciliation date well.
If you put all the above tips into practice then within a short time your ex-girlfriend will be asking you to meet for drinks. How cool is that? When you finally get together, make sure you keep feeding her mind with words that will stimulate the flow of oxytocin to her brain. Use the words and sentences suggested in the Ex Factor Guide tactfully in your conversation, so that you keep her fixated on you. Your girl will soon be back in your arms!
Now that you know how to get your ex girlfriend back, what are you going to do about it? Do you need her as much as you say you do? If you really want her back, sign up for the Ex Factor Guide and get full information on how to win her back, and to sustain your relationship. You must know, however, that this guide is not a quick fix. You must also wait patiently for the results.
Nothing, including a fulfilling relationship, comes easy. Once you find your soul mate, keep her close, no matter the cost.